http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/culture-of-love/a-brief-guide-to-erotic-fiction-1703745.html?action=Popup&ino=1

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/desire/desire-what-really-turns-us-on-1606978.html

‘No matter how much their keypads insisted they weren’t interested in the scenes before them, their internal monitors showed they were turned on by everything: straight sex, gay sex, lesbian sex, the nude gymnast – even the rutting simians got a vaginal thumbs-up. “

“Academics are pondering the importance of being desired in inspiring desire; how women are turned on by the thought of being wanted – not just loved by a caring and empathetic partner, but urgently, physically craved to a level of derangement. “Women’s desire,” said one (female) professor, “is not relational, it’s narcissistic.” Coleridge expressed the same idea 170 years earlier: “The man’s desire is for the woman,” he wrote, “but the woman’s desire is rarely other than for the desire of the man.” “

“Women would be amazed if they knew what men desire about them. Yes, of course, they want to see women naked and supine and melting, but male desire is far more readily stimulated by what the oblique glance discovers: the parted lips, the micron of eyelash which the mascara brush missed, the changing angle and shadow of cleavage, the bra-strap alternately displayed and covered up, the ripe-camembert plumpness at the edge of hips. There is, inside every adult man, a relentless Peeping Tom, a perennial 14-year-old boy, still amazed by the phenomenon of women on display, flagging their sexuality, their availability, with every square inch of visible flesh, clothing, make-up and curve. “

“For men, desire involves the primal urge to possess and penetrate the object of their attention, but also the more sophisticated urge to invade her (or his) life, to become the object of her attention and affection. Male desire does not cease when the initiating partner – the desirer – has finished performing the blanket hornpipe and the midnight rodeo upon (or beneath) the desiree. In many respects, his urge to explore every nook and cranny of her body and soul has only just begun.
Male lust is an ignorant, blind, bullying thing – an immediate need, as real as hunger though not quite so life-threatening. Male desire is more subtle and strategic than wanting to get laid. It yearns to satisfy something more long-term, something awkwardly freighted with spiritual components. It’s about wanting to offer yourself to a person you admire, to combine your two spirits. “

“Women have been much more concerned about having the “right” kind of sex ever since Sigmund Freud started the “vaginal vs clitoral” orgasm debate back in 1905. He gave several generations of women instantaneous inferiority complexes when he wrote that the clitoral orgasm was an “adolescent” phenomenon that “mature” women would outgrow.”

http://www.themixtapeclub.org
In every issue some contributors are asked to submit a mixtape. Available to be listened online.

http://www.southwillard.com/collections/mens/stephan-schneider/
http://www.tresbienshop.net/en/grp/stephanschneider-all-items.php (much cheaper, and 30% off)

http://www.geoffroydeboismenu.com
Erotic photography by geoffroy deboismenu

http://www.asos.com/
A UK online clothing store that ships to HK for flat rate 14 pound. Some cheap trendy brands there.

http://www.omiru.com/index.php/2009/04/22/mens-qa-three-ways-to-wear-white-jeans/

Q: White jeans for men seems to be kind of on-trend right now, and I’m just wondering how you suggest wearing them.

A: You’re completely right – white jeans is a fresh look for men, and while white jeans are tough to keep clean, the effort can pay off in spades.  Here’s three simple ways to work white jeans into your wardrobe:

Option 1: White Jeans + Pullover Sweater

Feeling the love for this outfit?  Here’s more information about it.

Go simple by pairing your white jeans with a simple pullover sweater.  You can go with deep, vibrant colors like the royal blue shown – or try lighter colors like heather grey or baby blue for a quietly sophisticated look.

Option 2: White Jeans + Bold Polo Shirt

Feeling the love for this outfit?  Here’s more information about it.

For casual days, you can look instantly pulled together in a striped polo shirt and a crisp white pair of jeans.  To polish off the look (but at the same time keeping it casual), add a belt and a pair of tailored sneakers.

Option 3: White Jeans + Collared Shirt + Cardigan Sweater

Feeling the love for this outfit?  Here’s more information about it.

For effortless elegance, pair your white denim with a well fitted collared button-down shirt – and then layer on a textured sweater.  We’re digging the look of a textured shawl collared cardigan against the woven button-down shirt – plus the interplay of the grey, the pinkish red and white stripes, and the white jeans.  Finish off the look with a belt and a pair of driving mocs.

http://www.omiru.com/index.php/category/men/
A site with many useful tips for making an outfit

http://pipeline.refinery29.com/news/erotic_mags_blur_the_line_betw.php

Let’s face it: Nothing sells quite like a little sex. Just take a look at pretty much every recent high-end editorial (it’s art!), ad campaign (it’s provocative!), or just about anything shot by Terry Richardson (it’s Terry!) where Sex is more than just mere innuendo. With the lines between fashion, eroticism, and porn becoming less and less clear, it seems perfectly on point for a sexy slew of stylized skin mags to arouse new curiosity. Time to take note of these high-end purveyors of T&A.

Check them out after the break. NSFW (unless you work here)…

Paradis Magazine

This biannual “magazine for the contemporary man” is for those who enjoy a bit of intellect along with their erotica. As expected, it’s packed with Juergen Teller snaps and interviews with artists Damien Hirst and John Currin, as well as tastefully nude images of catwalkers like Lily Cole and a pregnant Eva Herzigova.

Jacques Magazine

The newest flesh-heavy fare, this fashion-conscious erotic mag has a no-airbrush policy and steamy shoots that remind us of classic-yet-cheeky ’70s porn pub Oui.

Butt Magazine

This pocket-sized homoerotic quarterly has seemingly changed the face of gay porn. There’s still plenty of good old-fashion skin time but with the added benefit of clever interviews, artful photography, and a healthy dose of humor.

S Magazine

This smut-meets-art glossy bi-annual’s sexed-up super-sized Issue Number 9 (with guest curators MD70) made us swoon with its Bardot and bondage-themed spreads and enough skin to make it way more naughty than your average fashion mag.

Purple Sexe

While Purple Magazine is already known for frequent skin-centric editorials, its supplemental index Purple Sexe—which arrived with our Fall/Winter issue—celebrates a steamy, less-clothes-and-more-skin aesthetic.