October 24, 2009
Desire: What really turns us on?
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/desire/desire-what-really-turns-us-on-1606978.html
‘No matter how much their keypads insisted they weren’t interested in the scenes before them, their internal monitors showed they were turned on by everything: straight sex, gay sex, lesbian sex, the nude gymnast – even the rutting simians got a vaginal thumbs-up. “
“Academics are pondering the importance of being desired in inspiring desire; how women are turned on by the thought of being wanted – not just loved by a caring and empathetic partner, but urgently, physically craved to a level of derangement. “Women’s desire,” said one (female) professor, “is not relational, it’s narcissistic.” Coleridge expressed the same idea 170 years earlier: “The man’s desire is for the woman,” he wrote, “but the woman’s desire is rarely other than for the desire of the man.” “
“Women would be amazed if they knew what men desire about them. Yes, of course, they want to see women naked and supine and melting, but male desire is far more readily stimulated by what the oblique glance discovers: the parted lips, the micron of eyelash which the mascara brush missed, the changing angle and shadow of cleavage, the bra-strap alternately displayed and covered up, the ripe-camembert plumpness at the edge of hips. There is, inside every adult man, a relentless Peeping Tom, a perennial 14-year-old boy, still amazed by the phenomenon of women on display, flagging their sexuality, their availability, with every square inch of visible flesh, clothing, make-up and curve. “
“For men, desire involves the primal urge to possess and penetrate the object of their attention, but also the more sophisticated urge to invade her (or his) life, to become the object of her attention and affection. Male desire does not cease when the initiating partner – the desirer – has finished performing the blanket hornpipe and the midnight rodeo upon (or beneath) the desiree. In many respects, his urge to explore every nook and cranny of her body and soul has only just begun.
Male lust is an ignorant, blind, bullying thing – an immediate need, as real as hunger though not quite so life-threatening. Male desire is more subtle and strategic than wanting to get laid. It yearns to satisfy something more long-term, something awkwardly freighted with spiritual components. It’s about wanting to offer yourself to a person you admire, to combine your two spirits. “
“Women have been much more concerned about having the “right” kind of sex ever since Sigmund Freud started the “vaginal vs clitoral” orgasm debate back in 1905. He gave several generations of women instantaneous inferiority complexes when he wrote that the clitoral orgasm was an “adolescent” phenomenon that “mature” women would outgrow.”
October 17, 2009
tassel loafers
oKaY,我也必須承認這雙Moccasins Italian Style!很可惜沒有訂購到E.W_的尺寸,看這款麂皮樂福便鞋是不一樣地摩登風格,有打結綁繩帶與鞋舌葉片與軟膠舒適鞋底.
在紳士皮鞋場面Loafers-是不用綁帶可簡易穿脫Slip On便鞋,起源於1930’s美國像是“penny loafer”,有黑色/酒紅色,可具代表經典樣式BASS WEEJUNS ,最初穿配在商務人士,到了1950’s在長春藤衣著風格再次風行至今,在保守年代而Tassel Loafer是多加流蘇設計的裝飾.讓衣櫥增添了搭配鞋款.
休閒衣著Tassel Loafer and slip on suede moccassins(圖上方),隨著時代進步推出五顏六色款式,多種素材製作,照片轉載:The Sartorialist
Brooks Brothers更新推出窄鞋楦,鞋舌葉片的Tassel Loafer,霧面黑色皮革,棕褐色皮革
-Tassel loafers-
1.酒紅色皮革英國Tassel Loafers,經典1940’s原創 by Alden
2.黑色英國Tassel Loafers,最佳商務衣著by Alden
3.米色系Tassel Loafers與鞋舌葉片
4.英國紳士衣著巧克力咖啡色-麂皮素材Tassel Loafers
1.咖啡麂皮Tassel Loafers by Paul Smith
2.深藍麂皮Slip On moccassin By Jeff Banks
3.09’s 推出五顏六色皮革Tassel Loafers-Italian Style by Gucci
1950’s vintage ph:穿配流蘇裝飾樂福鞋,(IVY-STYLE/C.C.)
白色皮革,義大利樣式white leather moccassin By DNA(圖上方),Claudio休閒穿配-
E.W_的英國original Loake-Tassel Loafers有光澤皮革-稱Brighton
Slip on Suede moccassin(圖上方)-Italian Styled by Dna
你是否準備好Slip-On moccassin為09’summer?什麼顏色?
October 11, 2009
mixtape club
http://www.themixtapeclub.org
In every issue some contributors are asked to submit a mixtape. Available to be listened online.
geoffroydeboismenu
http://www.geoffroydeboismenu.com
Erotic photography by geoffroy deboismenu
ASOS
http://www.asos.com/
A UK online clothing store that ships to HK for flat rate 14 pound. Some cheap trendy brands there.
August 30, 2009
Mens Q&A: Three Ways to Wear White Jeans
http://www.omiru.com/index.php/2009/04/22/mens-qa-three-ways-to-wear-white-jeans/
Q: White jeans for men seems to be kind of on-trend right now, and I’m just wondering how you suggest wearing them.
A: You’re completely right – white jeans is a fresh look for men, and while white jeans are tough to keep clean, the effort can pay off in spades. Here’s three simple ways to work white jeans into your wardrobe:
Option 1: White Jeans + Pullover Sweater
Go simple by pairing your white jeans with a simple pullover sweater. You can go with deep, vibrant colors like the royal blue shown – or try lighter colors like heather grey or baby blue for a quietly sophisticated look.
Option 2: White Jeans + Bold Polo Shirt
For casual days, you can look instantly pulled together in a striped polo shirt and a crisp white pair of jeans. To polish off the look (but at the same time keeping it casual), add a belt and a pair of tailored sneakers.
Option 3: White Jeans + Collared Shirt + Cardigan Sweater
For effortless elegance, pair your white denim with a well fitted collared button-down shirt – and then layer on a textured sweater. We’re digging the look of a textured shawl collared cardigan against the woven button-down shirt – plus the interplay of the grey, the pinkish red and white stripes, and the white jeans. Finish off the look with a belt and a pair of driving mocs.
August 29, 2009
omiru
http://www.omiru.com/index.php/category/men/
A site with many useful tips for making an outfit
August 5, 2009
A New Wave Of Erotic Mags Blur The Line Between High-Style and Smut
http://pipeline.refinery29.com/news/erotic_mags_blur_the_line_betw.php
Let’s face it: Nothing sells quite like a little sex. Just take a look at pretty much every recent high-end editorial (it’s art!), ad campaign (it’s provocative!), or just about anything shot by Terry Richardson (it’s Terry!) where Sex is more than just mere innuendo. With the lines between fashion, eroticism, and porn becoming less and less clear, it seems perfectly on point for a sexy slew of stylized skin mags to arouse new curiosity. Time to take note of these high-end purveyors of T&A.
Check them out after the break. NSFW (unless you work here)…
This biannual “magazine for the contemporary man” is for those who enjoy a bit of intellect along with their erotica. As expected, it’s packed with Juergen Teller snaps and interviews with artists Damien Hirst and John Currin, as well as tastefully nude images of catwalkers like Lily Cole and a pregnant Eva Herzigova.
The newest flesh-heavy fare, this fashion-conscious erotic mag has a no-airbrush policy and steamy shoots that remind us of classic-yet-cheeky ’70s porn pub Oui.
This pocket-sized homoerotic quarterly has seemingly changed the face of gay porn. There’s still plenty of good old-fashion skin time but with the added benefit of clever interviews, artful photography, and a healthy dose of humor.
This smut-meets-art glossy bi-annual’s sexed-up super-sized Issue Number 9 (with guest curators MD70) made us swoon with its Bardot and bondage-themed spreads and enough skin to make it way more naughty than your average fashion mag.
While Purple Magazine is already known for frequent skin-centric editorials, its supplemental index Purple Sexe—which arrived with our Fall/Winter issue—celebrates a steamy, less-clothes-and-more-skin aesthetic.
